• What are the alternatives for being naked in nature in Asia?

    By sunbuns in Home on 7 October 2017 à 07:06


    I have just joined a gay social networking and news media site for men in Asian called Fridae.com - one of their tribes (discussion groups) is the Nudist and Naturalist Networks. It is free to join Fridae and create a profile with a vault (gallery of naked pics), but you'll need to be a premium member to really take advantage of everything the site offers. See my profile at:

    http://www.fridae.com/user/sunbuns (You'll need to join it to be able to see my or other guys' profiles).

    Where can a person get naked outdoors here in Asia. Generally, people answer that question simply and emphatically: You can't! However, there are actually several options - blatant dickflashing or exhibitionism - notwithstanding.
    Here is what I added to the several responses concerning this discussion question on Fridae.com:  

    Where in Asian can a guy go to a nudist beach?
     In Japan, there are only two places where guys (mostly gay men) go as a nude beach (one in Chiba, and the other is a deserted spot on Shonan Beach). Neither are well known by the general public partly because they are so hard to find, and far from Tokyo. Also, it's not like Black's Beach or ones in other Westernized countries, people get naked very discreetly even on a supposedly nude beach. They generally wear swimwear when walking around or when in the water, but remove their clothes while lying in the sun.

    The next best thing to a nude beach then is a hot springs resort or a public bathing spa, the latter of which there are over 50 in Tokyo. In these, men and women have separate bathing areas. 

    Often, there is a small outside areas (enclosed by a fence for privacy) where the naked men can soak in a pool of mineral waters or lounge naked or draped in a towel. Inside, there are various types of baths, but the men are usually totally naked when walking to and from each pool and when they sit on stools at individual showers for washing body and hair. Many of them have wet and dry saunas. So, despite their being little interest in nude beaches, Japanese are often fond of such warm mineral baths, and even travel to stay in the many areas of the country where there are nice resort hotels grouped around these hot springs, such as Hakone.

    However, you don't have to go far from any metropolitan area to enjoy the same atmosphere of men enjoying being naked. Formerly, there were the old-fashioned public baths or 'sento' in every neighorhood, which have just about disappeared these days, being replaced by large, more modern and luxurious: bathing resort (or 'onsen' - hot springs bath or spa). The water has a higher content of minerals, particularly sodium (salt) and it's either brought in or created, but in sometimes comes naturally from the ground as Japan is a set of volcanic islands, also prone to earthquakes, as everyone knows.

    Well... for those in Malaysia or Singapore, and other places where there are not naked places, you can do what I often do: Make your own nude beach by just getting naked where the general public cannot see (easily).


    About my own free-based, public nude sunbathing...
    I love being naked outdoors and often do so when there is a patch of land or a bushy area along side a river or a section of recreational land. If men are already sunbathing someplace, then just find a more hidden place in the same area and take it a step further: remove all your clothes and cover your privates. When no one is around, you can remove the covering.

    In my trips to Thai, Singapore and Malaysia, I can recall a few places where this might happen, such as Sentosa Island, or a bit further afield - take a ferry or boat to one of the Indonesian islands not far from Singapore. There are surely some deserted beaches as well along Malaysia's southern coast, perhaps on Tioman Island (as there are plenty of foreigners), and also in East Malaysia (Sarawak), I was able to get naked inside the Bako National Park both inland and at any of many deserted beaches. Guides on individually hired boats can take you to a certain point, and pick you up later.
    Here are four other photos from times I got naked in public or went hiking naked where nudity is not supposed to be allowed:

    1) at a public park just outside Prague, 2) Naked in public park & campground on the Big Island 3) Naked while camping at a private resort at Russian River, CA. 4) Swimming and sunning myself nude at Tama River in the suburbs of Tokyo, Japan.

    I realize that an important element may be missing when you simply go out and get naked alone. One of the most fun things about nude beaches is not only about being seen in the nude. It's also the chance to see others (especially men) in all their naked glory. You can't always do both at the same time. There must be places and events where men in various Asian countries are naked or dressing / undressing so take advantages of those spots even if you can't be naked yourself at the same time.

    However, you may get a chance to see both nature and men doing things in nature and completely naturally that you didn't expect to see, such as guys having sex or masturbating because they think they are alone, like in this photo from a voyeur site above. Or scenes like the ones below - where everyday Asian guys just enjoy finally being able to get completely naked in public.

     

    A Young gay asian guy from the Philippines takes a walk every saturday afternoon, but not because he is in love with nature, but because he loves to be naked outdoors. Sneaking out of his house on Saturday, he heads into the forest. As soon as he is out of sight of his home his clothes start to come off. Walking down the path the leaves and branches brush against his thighs, causing him to get very horny. The silky feeling of the brush against his skin causes his cock to get hard. It's not long before his cock is ready to explode in a massive cum shot. Come inside and see our gallery collection of Jaycee (Jecee) on his naked nature walks.


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  • Suburban nudism - exposed at public recreation area

    By sunbuns in Home on 6 October 2017 à 10:02

     




    sunbuns
    Desperately flashing Susan


    Joined: 23 Apr 2005
    Posts: 126
    Location: Hawaii, San Diego, travel a lot US,Asia, Europe, etc
    Posted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 12:23 pm Post subject: Suburban nudism - exposed at public recreation area  
    Summer's dwindling away slowly here. But the sunny days are no longer so humid; school's getting started so that brings out teams and athletic groups. Fortunately, we've had few typhoons (Pacific hurricanes) so far this season).

    Instead of spending all summer abroad (US/Europe), I returned to JP and have had a few weeks off. Lucky for me, it means trips locally (by bike), into the big city (for the gay baths) or further away. Just minutes by bicycle from my house is a (usually) shallow river that has large flat flood-zone embankments which are used for recreation areas.

    I've been spending lots of time there - sunny myself (almost naked or sometimes completely - SEE NEXT article). I was pleasantly surprised recently to be flashed (accidental exposure - really) by some college age frisbee soccer dudes. (see pics below)
     

    The best 'exposing' was done on a Sunday afternoon. But unfortunately, I didn't have my camera. I went back two days later and the same group was practicing. This time I got some photos; however, the two hottest guys who naked 'incidents' I wrote about in the blog entry (below) weren't as exhibitionistic as before.

    I wrote about it in one of my blogs:
    http://kelly-sb.blogspot.com/2008/08/japanese-dudes-use-nudity-for.html

    Still ... I think you can get a flavor of what I was seeing before - since their undressing after practice lasted over a 15-20 minute period.


    They are not intentionally flashing anybody - except maybe each other - although I can't see why they wouldn't know that anybody (like the white American guy sitting around the field) could be watching or even people passing on the walkway above them. However, I found it so ironic that they could so easily get naked -- since Japanese are so shy in some aspects of their individual personalities and social culture. Paradoxically, people in groups can get away with almost anything if the 'group's' mores/norms allow it.

    It was both intriguing and downright sexy to watch. Enough so that afterwards, I had to get naked and exposed - on my own. It was easy and ohh so fun .. being inspired to nakedness!

    Kelly

     

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    Jerking off in a local river ( inspired by seeing soccer boy butts)


    sunbuns
    Desperately flashing Nobody


    Joined: 23 Apr 2005
    Posts: 126
    Location: Hawaii, San Diego, travel a lot US,Asia, Europe, etc

    Posted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 12:46 pm Post subject:  
     
     
     
    As I said, I was inspired to try out some innocent naked exposure on my own -- hardly innocent - but not malicious either. Who knows maybe there was someone with a camera, taking photos of my naked body - just as I had done with the frisbee team above.

    About 4:30pm when the fisherman leave the river (most have on waders and are out flying fishing), I move from near the side of the frisbee soccer field on down to the river's edge. There is a grassy / bushy area between the field area and the river banks, which is lower, flat but wdie, and partially hidden - except from people who are either on the river's edge or who are standing on the other side of the river. It's covered in smooth rounded rocks and pebbles.
    I strip and wear my wrap-around (pareo) to get into the water. Then remove it and swim in the very shallow cool and clean (mostly clean) water. It's not the muddy crap you see in China or some other Asian nations. The water in Japan is mostly clean so much so that you're tempted to drink it - and probably could without risk. The people in Japan are proud of their water and a lot of public works money is spent to ensure its quality and efficiency.

    I start jerking my cock and it gets hard, knowing that someone might be able to see me -- either from the opposite banks, or the apartment building balconies just beyond that. Other 'viewers' might suddenly come down the embankment from behind me and interrupt my masturbating, but that only serves to get me more excited. Two teenage boys are fishing at my left down the river - they could have looked up - to see a naked male figure on the horizon. I keep looking to see if they noticed - but had no indication that they ever did.


    If anybody gazes in my direction for a little while, they would see the regular pumping movements of my arm and a hand that's moving back and forth at my crotch. I'm not going to stand up - it's not even 5 pm and the sun is still one hour before setting - bathing me in soft yellowish light. Before long, my cum mingles with the mossy rocks and flows rapidly away downstream.

    Before that, I had taken some pics of me standing or kneeling in the water. There were pics too of people around me.

     

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    Kelly 

     
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  • Has your friend's dad ever hinted at fooling around? Part 3

    By sunbuns in Home on 6 October 2017 à 04:06
     

    Re: Has your friend's dad ever hinted at fooling around?
    Once (it was only two years ago), I had a sleepover at my mate Sam's house.

    I had wanked him off a couple of time, but because we were *straight*(and he still is to this day), it was OK.

    Anyway we had just finished a wank session, and he had dropped off in his bed. I was forced into the sleeping bag:@. Then I heard the stairs creaking. I presumed it was the wind, because we were in the attic room. Then I heard the floorboards creak. Then I smelt Calvin Klein aftershave, and a large hairy hand went into my sleeping bag. I quickly realised it was Sam's dad. I tried to put up some form of resistance, but I gave up and decided not to bother.

    When he finished, he took his boxers off and gave them to me, then walked off naked.

    I never told Sam, and we are bezzies today!
     
       
    August 25th, 2006, 06:29 PM #45
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    Re: Has your friend's dad ever hinted at fooling around?
    I had something similar happen to me like this. But it doesn't end pretty...... Some of this story is being altered, don't get to get to much detail, it really hurt me.

    When I was younger, I wasn't thinking that I would ever be Bi-Sexual. So here is how the story begins.


    One day I am in my father's shop (he owned his own business/store), and he has a friend who always had a fetish about feet. (Which feet to me is a turn off big time due to this, before it didn't bother me but now it does) Well my father's friend would always play around massaging my feet etc, and this one time, he put my foot where his cock is. I guess I would say I got turned on by it.

    After that day was over, I asked my father if his friend could take me to the mall to meet some friends, well that was a lie, and my dad's friend thought he was dropping me off too. Well we get to the mall and I tell him, "my friends aren't coming now".... He said "ok, well since we are here want to go around and shop" I said "sure". About 2 hours later we pass by this one store, and it had slippers in there that looked like big shoes but were comfortable as hell, well he being the foot fetish person he is keeps telling me "take off your shoes put those on see how they feel", this guy at this point must be getting turned on by my feet, so I did it after 20 minutes of going back and for no yes no yes no yes..... I get the slippers and we leave to go back to the car.

    At this point I am wondering if he is gay, bi or straight. I didn't have the courage to ask him, so I asked him for a pen and a paper (lol), he gives it to me and I write it down and give it to him. He responds saying "yes I am", he then asked me, "are you Gay, Bi or Straight", I answered, "Bi" (because I was interested in him sexually). I started crying a little because I was young and all, well at this point he puts my head on his lap and starts driving me home, and making me feel good by talking to me and saying everything is ok.

    While he is driving me home, my head is right by his cock, I start looking at it, and at this point I guess he noticed because he put his fingers by my face/mouth. I start sucking on his finger like I would, when giving oral. Well when I do that he puts my face right on top of his jeans by his cock, I unbutton and unzip his pants take out his cock and suck my first cock. He speeds up takes a off road to park, and me and him have sex for the first time, and my first gay sexual encounter.

    For about 2 years we had a relationship, just sex and friend wise, more sex though. Well he fucks it all up and keeps asking me, "you ever suck off your brother, your brother is hot". I am like "no, now please don't mention that again, I am not into incest" (well hell I could have sex with my uncle (family through marriage), that's coming up lol). Well a week later he goes up to my brother and says "drop on your knees and suck my cock", my brother says "get the fuck outta here, I will never do that". Then my fathers friend says, "why? your brother already dropped to his knees and blew me". This is really screwed up because it gave my whole family ideas about me being gay, and they start intruding on my life. You have no idea how hard it is to face it with a family that isn't homophobic but a family that wouldn't look at you the same again.

    Well at this point I broke off the relationship, and have been in hiding from this guy, because to this day he still talks to my family, and I always tell my family I don't like him, he needs to stay away from the store. (I don't know how, but I got away with what he said to my brother) About a year ago, he finally finds me, and says "yeah I am no longer into younger guys anymore, I am into older guys now".
    I say "well that is good, I hope it works out for you", then he says "well you are a older guy now, want to go on a cruise with me?" I am like "are you serious after what happened between me and you." He goes on and on, finally my father comes back and starts talking to him, well I make my get-a-way, and hide for the rest of the day.

    I really had feelings for this guy at first, it might have been just dumb feelings because I was so young, but after what happened it disgusted me, and made me never want to see him again. I have been insecure with my Bi-Sexual life ever since this has happened, and it was my first Gay Sexual Experience! I left out many, many screwed up details.

    But on to my Uncle. One time I was in Florida with my Brother's Girlfriend, my Uncle and his 3 kids. So we all go to the water park and as we were standing in line I accidentally brushed my hand on my uncles cock, through his bathing suit, well we both looked at each other and didn't say anything. Later that day, I go into the restroom's to take a leak, well he comes in with me and stands in the stall directly next to me, we are talking etc, well I catch him staring at my cock (He is a big guy around 6'4" perfect body thats makes you want to scream ecstasy), he can look over the paritions blocking us, but I can't because I am only 5'10". Then some kid comes up to us behind and starts talking to me, this kid was only about 7 and I felt like going nuts cause I wanted to see where this went, by the time I turned back around my uncle was finished and started walking away!

    Now the reasons I have are, 1) I caught gay porn on his computer when I was younger, 2) what happened in the stalls, and 3) About 6 months later, my family and my uncles family get together and its just me and him alone and I catch him again staring at my cock, and comes up to me standing closer, and my face is directly alined to his cock, at this point he is standing about a foot or less away from me, his legs spread open like a V but upside down of course. I am not sure if this is a reason but shit gives me a good damn reason after him getting so close to me after staring at my cock.

    Another time was when we were at the beach, (this isn't really a reason) well he says to me all the
    time, well time to get into the cold water and have our cock's shrivel on us (i am laughing and screaming in my mind at this point, cause I just want to have sex, one night with him, shit even more if I can). Well we are swimming and I brush up against his cock again. We both say nothing again, but about 20 minutes later I felt a brush against mine and he wasnt far from me at all, but we had my 1 cousin with us, so I don't know if it was an accident or on purpose, my uncle was looking at me right after it happened though.

    It's driving me insane, what do you all think? Its not big evidence, and my gaydar (I actually do have one lol, I start getting a nervous feeling around gay guys, and all I have to do is look at them in the face, no talk or nothing lol), isn't working with him, but then again it doesn't work with people I have known basically my whole life, as I have had an encounter with my friend before, and he forced it. 
       
     
     
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  • Hostel Hotness: Experiencing CMNM flashing in hotels and hostels

    By sunbuns in Home on 6 October 2017 à 04:05

    Hostel Hotness 

    (from discussions on DN, DF & JUB)

    Elegantism (member id) started off the discussion on hostel hotness like this:

    Traveling through Europe,  I stayed in hostels sometimes]8 guys to a room so I always thoughts something hot would go down.

    I remember this one time in Italy where the room was tiny and there were 6 guys in it. all ended up sleeping naked on top of the sheets sweating and boning all night long.

    Any more exciting stories?
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    Follow up: beachpuppy
    I was staying in a hostel in Verona, Italy, in a beautiful converted villa. Some of the showers were communal, shower heads from a common pillar. When you took showers, it meant you were standing around the same pillar, sort of face to face. Got hooked up there taking showers together...

    Follow up: nakedparis
    It happened to me in Budapest; the hostel was an university residence and showers were in a big room; there were little walls between showers but no curtains, so it was easy to peer the guys in the fron shower's line or drying after the shower.
    In Stockholm too, I found two hostels with showers not very private; there were curtains, but the undressing room was common, so before and after the shower, we could peer each other.
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    My response:

    It's great to find others who are equally attracted to CMNM (clothed male / naked male) experiences at hostels. Sex is sometimes overrated and that's not just sour grapes because I can and do get a lot of it. But I find the male bonding / friendship/ buddy camaraderie / 'skinship' aspect of relationships with other men (not just sex) can be so much more easily experienced in an environment like a hostel and I find myself craving such experiences because I feel so isolated from knowing men fully. Sure I can fuck around with guys, but it find it hard to make friends or just be buddies with guys without sex at the same time releasing our typically mutual inhibitions toward deeper male friendships.
    I have had some great times and also some highly homoerotic stays at several hostels... particularly at one hostel (presently unnamed) - which I have described here on a previous thread posting (now disappeared). I've written about these hostels and sought and given advice about traveling using hostels and the male bonding / male nudity that can happen here and on my blogs. 
    nakedparis (above) has a great idea but I think we need another site/venue to share these since DN is so limited and the posts eventually scroll up and disappear. Also, there is the issue of privacy - when we start actually naming places and giving out address, then it may get back to the hostel owners (indirectly) that their establishments is targeted by gays/bi-guys seeking sex in their hostels. Some of the hottest places to stay are not always to gay-friendly or diversity oriented.

    In the meantime, I want to hear more from elegantism about his experiences...
    Hey, don't any of you guys blog? One cool idea is to create a Group Blog (using Blogger and Flickr) with multiple account holders (blog members). It's easy to set up (I can do that) and then you can either post entries by going to the Blogger (there can be many blog members or you can blog an entry by sending an email (even with an attached photo).

    What do you say? Anybody want to try that... the discussion can still go on here but a 'good / useful' entry could also easily be blogged too. It doesn't mean to have to share id or have common passwords either.

    A few days later...... I added:

    I created the CMNM blog and I can add you as a co-author.
    Actually, you don't have to actually join blogger to do so - because even without being an (approved) blog author - it is now set up to allow posts to be sent by e-mail. That address is written in the first (trial) post at:

    http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com/

    The problem is how to handle explicit sexual photographs (I discuss in that post). Not having any solves that dilemma-- but there is still the matter of what constitutes 'sensual / sexy vs erotic or artistic nude vs blatant sexual behavior or obscenity as defined by the courts.


    It won't be an issue-- of course -- if nobody ever posts or even reads it.
    Look at it first and then tell me what you think about 'managing' the off-site blog..... Guys Into CMNM

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    So now it is off and running more to follow later.....
    Kelly

    Experiencing CMNM flashing: Ideas for hotels and hostels 

    These next series of posts might be interesting to someone who wants to be see naked by other guys - particularly by str8 or clothed men when you are in 'nude' situations. I don't consider this blatant or in-your-face exhibitionism - for me, it is a sort of sensous and partly innocent accident flashing or being seen naked (or purpose) where nudity might be expected. I find it even hotter and more
    sexually stimulating when the guys doing the looking are either supposedly straight or are themselves clothed. It's great when they take notice or when you can tell that they kind of like the experience (or the freedom and license) to get naked them. Many don't need to get permission and quite a few don't care or even notice, but you know never what will happen or how they might react - there are surprising results sometimes - and far from bad ones.

    A few weeks ago a posted question came from somebody on another board:
    I am staying in a budget hotel next week with shower and toilet in the hallway. Stayed there before and tried the basic stuff. Like walking to the shower and up and down the corridors in underwear, and even nude, but was, as far as I know, never seen.

    Does anyone have any creative ideas to show off or to risk being seen in this situation? Perhaps I can post some pics of your fantasy..
    Here is how I responded to the guy's request for suggestions:

    I had a conference in Honolulu and had planned to stay in a shared hotel room with a str8 buddy. As it turns out, my friend is not going to make it (his wife is coming along), so I made a reservation for a large (10 bed) dorm room in one of these hotels. It sounds like I might had more luck to choose the small dorm room (just 4 beds) since it might be more conducive to a break-out jo sessions. I know I'll be horny as hell and probably not get a wink of sleep - just hearing out guys breathing / turning over / adjust clothes / and the normal sounds of sleeping turns me on like crazy. I don't know what I'll do if one of them is audibly (or visibly) beating off. Still, I'd love to hear more.
    I'll be at a hostel next week Feb 15-18. It's more like budget hotel with shared rooms 4 to 8 people in either co-ed or female only room. However, it's actually rare to have a coed dorm room be that. single women at a hostel rarely stay in a dorm so they are most all male -- but some regular hotels and inns have larger rooms where guests/strangers who don't know each other share at least a WC/shower but also the bedroom (and lounge/ en suite facilities (kitchen / bathroom etc).

    Here are my suggestions for the hotel you've chosen:  
    ( I think you only have a shared bath/toilet . But it really all depends on the actual place and how lucky (popular LOL) you are with the other guests).
    Whether it's a true hostel situation or just a hotel that's cheaply built; changes how you can set up a flash - we're obviously talking about innocent exposure (and kind of CMNM - not a full-on shove hard cock in their face). If you can do that kind, you probably would NOT be asking for advice.

    So it depends on the rooms (size and number of beds shared if at all) the layout of rooms and hallways, number of floors, how big (or small) the bath /toilet (in Europe (and Japan) it's always separate but not in North America. Other important things are who are the guests - backpackers - young, free-minded and playful or staid conservative hard-line tourist or locals who are just too stingy to stay at more expensive hotels (no offense --- I've stayed at many a budget hotel myself - there are many reasons to do so - than just saving money - friendliness, personal attention and a chance to talk to local owners (who are more likely to own and run it themselves).

    1) leave the door unlocked - even if you are NOT 'surprised' once when somebody embarrassingly open it while you're nude..for example they open the door and then close it quickly after getting a glimpse of you - (even though you did see or don't acknowledge having seen them)  at least , he will know that there is a good possibility of it happening again (you've established a 'predictable' pattern ) so he might just deliberating sneak open the door the next time for a better look or just swing it back wide to give somebody else a chance to see.  
    2) stay at least 3 nights -if you can.. Notice other's habits/timing for taking showering (or needing the bathroom) -- then make sure you're there before during or after - in some states of undress.     

    3) Sometimes you can time it so well that you can be ready with all your stuff and clutching your towel loosely around your waste.. and then look disappointed if he makes in in before you. if he hesitate just say you won't be long or you're in a rush to an appointment so ask if you can jump inthe shower quickly ahead of him - while he shaves ...
    4) If it's the reverse you get in first but see that he was wanting to shower/use the bath too (he's got his shower gear etc). You can suggest he go first IF you can get started with shaving -- then you can come in too and strip naked and shave until he gets finished with his shower. and comes out to dry.  
    5) Use the shared bath/shower on another floor - then you have an excuse to be half-naked (skimpy towel that seems to be falling down by inself ) for a long distance... People want notice unless - for example, you ride up and down on the elevator naked to visit many floors. 
    6) Pretend to go to a room (on the same or different floor where you KNOW there is not guest) - you can see the key has not been picked up - there are not footsteps at all from the room directly above yours.  
    Then act like you're trying to get into visit that 'empty' room's guest - wearing only your underwear or skimpy towel -- you can knock of the door just as someone opens to come out or when the elevator opens -- knock and whisper a name but drop something -- bending over to pick it up you 'accidently' loose grip on the towel around your naked loins - IT'S OLD comedy routine but it works because most people are embarassed for you NOT because of you. If you clumsy -looking enough, sometimes people will even reach out to help you retrieve something - like the towel. and then you can turn to be red-faced with mocked shame...  The problem with this one is that you can't be sure the person who will view is male or female.
    7) Another way to so pretend to be mistaken about a friend's room number. Most people won't open for a complete stranger but if you are insistent and seem to KNOW a real person who you know is 'inside' - most people will open the door to correct your error - out of kindness - If they don't or won't, and just yell through the door then nothing's been harmed.  
    If they do open it without speaking to you first, you can just pretend to be expecting your 'friend' and start to come in through the door - but you'll be SO surprised that the person is NOT who you were expecting that you drop your shower/bath gear and then loose hold of the towel trying to catch the shampoo bottle. It's better if you actually do have your hands full or are holding something else because the 'normal 'reaction would be to turn or to try to cover your genitals. The guy (hopefully you'll get one 50%of the time) will either look up at your face (either before or after he looks right at your cock). If it's noticeable he's not completely disgusted or seems to find it amusing, then smile and apologize and explain that you thought Hans/George was in this room and you needed to give him an urgent message - all the while still not covering up and even almost or dropping something else (unbreakable) to that the guy (guest) has to get down and look up to see from a 'better' angle. Your cock should have swelled a bit now -- so he'll show even more appreciation in his eyes or make it clear that he wants you to leave.
    Hey.. I came up with a lot of bold and perhaps successful ones -- I can't wait to try out some of them myself... 
    Final suggestion, next time try a hostel - you're in a room all the time with men - so you can be as naked as much as you can get away with it-- the bath/shower is attached usually so you can freely go back and forth in the nude to your own ..  
    Nowadays.. I'm sure that might be one reason that advertize these rooms as MIXED or COED - but - in truth - only a group of women would stay in a mixed group room - usually then the hotel clerk puts that group by itself. Also there are women only group rooms - so it's very like you'll only be put in a room with men.  
    What I hate is when I am the ONLY person in the room. Sometimes if the hostel is not busy -they will put a lone 'wolf' - single older guys into one of the doubles/couples rooms (for the same price ) but sometimes I think it's just them taking a precaution - or out of respect for the noise that younger (under 26) supposedly make. Frankly I LIKE the noise they make - that's why I'm staying in the hostel (that and the opportunity to see and be seen naked). Still it is lucky to happen because most people are stranger than they are normal around strangers. LOL 
    I'll let you know how my trip to one goes next week.

    By the way, there are many chances to do get naked in public bath (baden ) and spas or hot springs. In Japan, there are onsen (hot springs resorts - where you can also get a day-pass just for the indoor and outdoors hot pools); there are even still pubic baths - sento - where you pay about $3-$4 to sit naked among or across from other men (sometimes young men and teens - but there are all ages), and wash and soap your body-- paying special attention to scrubbing your cock and balls. and then soak nude in the hot communal pool (after rinsing). It's a tradition that is rapidly dying out.  
    Any ideas or experiences about a flashing at 8-person hostel room (it may be coed)? It's in Honolulu and I don't know the shower set-up -since shower stall or communal (I hope).
    Kelly
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    The spirit is willing but the flash is week day and weekend!
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  • Gift unwrapped - the nature of authentic CMNM scenes

    By sunbuns in Home on 29 September 2017 à 02:08

    This blog is devoted to experiences, stories, advice, discussions (at least to save them from being deleted or disappearing), information, links to other Net resources, and (maybe) visual media for guys who are into (n2) CMNM - clothed male-naked male scenes. Not everyone who is interested in or turned on by the CMNM scene is gay, bi, or curious.







     CMNM is not simply a homosexual form of behavior. Actually, there are plenty of straight guys, who consciously or even subconsciously get some satisfaction from being naked or clothed with other naked men. Maybe they are just horny or starved for affection. There are also women who are turned on or intrigued by reality of a man being naked in front of clothed men and/or clothed women (or the reverse). Whether this nakedness is natural, socially acceptable, expected, forced on them, or totally exhibitionist, it generally involves either sexual arousal for the naked guy or the clothed guy(s) watching or for both. Such is the magic of this complicated scene - CMNM.
    It's really a sexual preference lifestyle issue, but some would call it a sexual fetish or perversion. However, in many ways, male nudity permeates almost all aspects of male-to-male relationships and influences the nature of masculinity and what it means to be a man. Men use nudity and exposure of body parts or genitals to communicate affection, friendship, camaraderie, power /control, and even distain or disgust. Being aware CMNM scenes and being turned on by them is subconscious for most males. We're just a select few who have recognized it as a separate way of psycho-sexual interaction and, for some personal or social stimulation. Once you think more deeply about it, you'll be able recognize and see its effects in buddy-to-buddy friendships, sports and athletic camaraderie, male-bonding and growing up, rites of passages for young males, social events, public and private clubs and social organizations, schooling, and especially in the past - even the constant girl-chasing pack mentality of romance, male lust (and sex) and the antics and rituals associated with those. More recent acceptance of gays in society has meant that 'guy-chasing' and the behaviors around that once secretive activity are becoming more known. So CMNM (like CFNM - "clothed female-naked male") is becoming a recognized category of human sexual activity.
    ---------- The above amateur photos were forwarded in a group email message ---------- From: atitlan on his [ymna2] Yahoo group.


     



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